Growing Older |
Created Date: 1-Oct-2016 |
Everything always is changing in our lives |
Last updated: 23-Nov-2022 |
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Common problems to all of us that cause depression, loneliness, fear, anxiety and medical problems are listed here. Note that it is okay and perfectly normal to grieve where there may be a season of time to heal. Here is a small list of events that we all face:
Note that it is okay and perfectly normal to grieve where there is a season as described in Ecclesiastes 3:1-8:
Concerning Heaven and Eternity:
Revelation 21:4 | He (God) will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and in death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away. |
Loss of Son, Daughter and close friends:
When King David lost his infant son from Bathsheba, the Holy Spirit let David know he will see him again, which applies to us in those we have lost too early in life.
2 Samuel 12:23 | But now he is dead. Why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he will not return to me. |
We know King David is saved and will be in eternity with all of us, so when David said he would see his son again then it was a reference to eternity. There is also wonderful and joyful knowledge that the Age of Accountability principle is from the Love of God.
Those we love that have died, know about us:
In Matthew 17:1-3, Jesus takes Peter, James and John to a high mountain where they are visited by Moses and Elijah whom had died many centuries before. Even Jesus Christ enjoyed speaking to those who have departed this earth, who He missed during His mission that dealt with taking on the sins of the world and crucifixion. Everyone that we have known that have Salvation and have died, know how we are doing and we can pray to God to let them know we miss and love them.
Matthew 17:1-3 | 1 Six days later Jesus took with Him Peter and James and John his brother, and led them up on a high mountain by themselves. 2 And He was transfigured before them; and His face shone like the sun, and His garments became as white as light. 3 And behold, Moses and Elijah appeared to them, talking with Him. |
Our Earthly Bodies are Temporary. Eternity awaits us:
In Matthew 27:52-53 we learn that the burial tombs of the departed saints (believers) at Christ's death were opened and the saints appeared to many in the city of Jerusalem
Matthew 27:52-53 | 52 The tombs were also opened and many bodies of the saints who had fallen asleep were raised. 53 And they came out of the tombs after His resurrection, entered the holy city, and appeared to many. |
These were witnesses to a life after death for us all. Those who were waiting for Jesus Christ's death on the Cross, could then leave the good compartment of upper Sheol to be present with God for eternity.
Everyone we loved and loved us are waiting for us:
In Hebrews 12:1 when considering those who have gone before us, Jesus Christ let us know comforting and amazing news. We are instructed to keep going in a our earthly life as if we are in a race to finish first place.
Hebrews 12:1-2 | 1 Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off every encumbrance and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with endurance the race set out for us. 2 Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. |
We have guarding angels to also help us:
We have ministering angels encamping around us as written in many scriptures like Hebrews 1:7. So, we are never alone even when we do not see anyone. These are what we all have heard as "Guardian Angels".
Hebrews 1:7 | Are they not all ministering spirits sent out to serve for the sake of those who are to inherit salvation? |
Our time on Earth is really short:
Realize our time is short so we should make the most of it.
Psalm 90:10 | As for the days of our life, they contain seventy years, Or if due to strength, eighty years, Yet their pride is but labor and sorrow; For soon it is gone and we fly away. |
Psalm 90:12 | So teach us to number our days, That we may present to You a heart of wisdom. |
This came from an anonymous source:
"Have you ever thought: “I’m fat”, “I’m old”, “I’m not enough.”, or
"I was
young once". To all my female friends from 40 years and up: Most of us are going
through the next phase of our lives. We're at that age where we see wrinkles,
gray hair, and extra pounds. We see the cute 25-year-olds and reminisce. But we
were also 25, just as they will one day be our age. We aren't the "girls in
their summer clothes" anymore. What they bring to the table with their youth and
zest, we bring our wisdom and experience. We have raised families, run
households, paid the bills, dealt with diseases, sadness, and everything else
life has assigned us. Some of us have lost those that were nearest and dearest
to us. We are survivors. We are warriors in the quiet. We are women, like a classic car or a fine wine. Even if our bodies aren't what they once were, they carry our souls, our courage, and our strength. We shall all enter this chapter of our lives with humility, grace, and pride over everything we have been through, and we should never feel bad about getting older. It's a privilege that is denied too so many." |
Alan Bean was the fourth Astronaut to walk on the Moon. See the link from Wikipedia for more about his life.
The following quote below was attributed to him, which is a great message to consider for so many people who are trying to accomplish accolades, riches and lusts of all kinds that do not involve the ultimate Godly purposes of a relationship with God and others in loving friendship.
Matthew 22:36-40 | 36 “Teacher, which commandment is the greatest in the Law?” 37 And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' 38 "This is the great and foremost commandment.' 39 The second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 Upon these two commandments hang the whole Law and the Prophets.” |
John 13:34 | I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. |
Alan's quote that gives us all a great reference point in life. Thankfully, it is not all there is.
In the end, what I have left from my walk on
the Ocean of Storms are memories, almost like it was a trip to the
seashore or a drive in the country. They mix together in a
constant stream of thoughts and images that come and go like all
memories do. The most precious things I brought back with me are the same things I left with - my two best friends. And I realize that when you go through any endeavor, any journey - whether across town or to the Moon and back - all that matters is that you share the experience with people you love. That's what makes life special because, ultimately, that's all there is. That's really all there is. Allan Bean - March 15, 1932 - May 26, 2018 |
The great joy we all need to keep foremost is the absolute comforting thought that we will be with God and all the people we love in life when all of us accept Jesus Christ as our Savior.
Read the book "90 Minutes in Heaven" by Don Piper. The movie is not a good Christian movie as Hollywood tried to make it a "feel-good" type of movie which just happened to have some information on Christianity.
We don't always understand God's answer and the fulfillment of prayers, but I absolutely know this prayer will be accomplished as it asking God to reward those who I have hurt and to change me. All aspects of the prayer request will give God the Glory. Those that I have done wrong will be rewarded in this life and absolutely in the next, which means they are better off for any suffering caused by me.
As analogy, imagine being hired to work for one hour for a fixed wage where the payment for the job turned out not to be fair compensation, but unexpectedly you are given three times the payment after completion. After receiving the payment, that is three times more than initially agreed upon, you would feel very grateful and glad to have done the job. You are then better off for doing the job rather than accepting another job which would not have paid as much.
"Dear Father, I come before you in the name of your Son Jesus Christ. I pray that before I die or Raptured, that you work out all of my mistakes, selfishness and sins against others and myself as benefit, so that I have no embarrassment and regrets before You where everything gives You Glory on how my mistakes, sins and selfishness blessed my victims and myself."
and
"Dear Father, I ask that my children, my siblings, my relatives, my friends and other people that have been victims of sins by others (which I could not protect them) that from this point going forward, I will be a witness to extend knowledge of You so that they will look to you for help, be able to help themselves now, and for them to understand that all suffering at the hands of others against the Christian will be rewarded by you."
Romans 8:28 | "And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose." |
Matthew 19:29 | And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or lands, for my name’s sake, will receive a hundredfold and will inherit eternal life. |
Romans 8:18 | For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. |
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