Finding a Church
The first step is always pray that the Holy Spirit guides you to a Church that you can be not only fed but be of service. Churches are not there for your benefit only. You need to also recognize that some Churches are there which have the apperance of serving and whorshipping God but are spiritually dead as a whole desipite having members who may be walking a life pleasing to God. There is an old cliche which states "If you find a perfect Church, do not join it because you will ruin it" which is to say there are no perfect Churches because they have people going to it like you and me. Another way to look at Church membership is "Church is a hospital for sinners" which is why the unbelieving world often looks at Believers and says they are such messed up people because of the people who go who are looking to God for help in many areas. A good way of looking at everyone including ourselves, is we are all a work in progress as sinners where our lives would far worse and messed up without God in ourlives.
Some general guidlines:
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